Wuxi,
China
Sep, 12th
2024

celebrate our wedding

Jake
Joyce

September 12th, 2024
See you in china

Sep, 12th
2024
Wuxi,
China

We can't wait to celebrate our special day with you!


We look forward to seeing you in China! 🥰

FAQ & Travel Tips
When

September 12th, 2024

🚘 For guests coming from overseas, we will arrange pick up from Shanghai on Sep 11th. Details here.

Where

@Song Hotel Wuxi, Wuxi, China

Dress code

Garden cocktail. Dress up comfortably for warm weather.

Avoid red and white. While the color red is auspicious in Chinese culture, it is typically reserved for brides.

A Brief History
Of Love

Click each date to see more of our story

Jan 2nd, 2018

Matched!
Swiped right and got matched on Coffee Meets Bagel

Summer 2018

Epic summer. We set out to live our lives to the fullest before we had to part ways.

Aug 2018

Joyce left for grad school @Stanford and Jake stayed behind in San Diego.

Oct 2018

We couldn’t let something this special go… so we finally committed to a long-distance relationship.

Aug 2019

🎓 Joyce graduated and moved in with Jake in San Diego!

Mar 2020

We've gone through COVID and various challenges in life together.

Sep 2020

Joyce proposed, Jake proposed, and we got married!

Dec 2020

We welcomed our baby boy Tonin to the family and became pawrents.

July 2021

Got our dream home after 2 years of searching and continued building dream life together!

Jake proposed to Joyce in Encinitas

He said Wait.
She said Yes.

they said i do

Long story short... During the pandemic in 2020, Joyce initially proposed to Jake. Jake responded with "wait wait wait," but agreed to get married. Fast forward to half an hour before the wedding at Pastor Mike's, with Dawn and Larry as witnesses, Jake surprised Joyce with his own proposal. It turns out that he had ordered a ring a while back and had it altered, but Joyce beat him to the proposal. Luckily, the ring arrived the day before the wedding.

Jake and Joyce got married during the pandemic. Now that China has opened up, they are ready to celebrate this milestone in their lives with their loved ones, including Joyce's family in China.
Schedule

September 9-11th

Jake & Joyce will be in Shanghai to hang out with guests who want to explore the city before the wedding.

Hotel

@Maxx by Steigenberger on the Bund Shanghai

🏨 Feel free to reach out to Jake & Joyce to get a group discount rate if you'd like to stay at this hotel!

September 11th

Head to Wuxi!

Pick up!

To ride with us to Wuxi, please meet us at Maxx by Steigenberger on the Bund Shanghai@1pm

🚘 If this doesn't work for you, let us know, and we can provide an alternative plan.

Hotel

Check in @Song Hotel Wuxi, Wuxi, China

(Optional) Activities

Guided tour & group dinner.

Enjoy local bars and night life @Qingming Bridge

🎉 September 12th 🎉

Prepare yourself for a hybrid Chinese & Western wedding with a lot of surprises, good food, drinks, fun and ...chaos? (Unfortunately, both of us are getting married for the first time so we don't know what to expect exactly 🤫)

We have activities throughout the day for guests to enjoy (more details soon). The main event that you don't want to miss is the dinner reception.

Dress comfortable and retrieve to your room to rest as much as you need! All you need to bring is an open mind and good vibes 😛. There will be cultural differences and shocks and we hope they all lead to great learning and memories on this special day.

9:58

Jake, Jake’s family & groomsmen travel to Joyce’s room as a group; join them when you see or hear them and go to Joyce’s room together!

Location/Transportation: 🚶Walk

9:58

Bride’s rituals before Jake arrives - you have this option to spectate from a bride’s family & friends’ perspective instead of joining Jake on the street

Location/Transportation: Joyce’s room 8231

10:28 - 11:28

Tea ceremony

Location/Transportation: Joyce’s room 8231

11:28 - 12:00

Travel to hotel lobby (J&J travel there separately)

Location/Transportation: 🚶Walk or 🚌 golf cart ride available

12:00

Lunch & rest time (you can go back to your room to rest)

Location/Transportation: Hotel restaurant; 🚶Walk or 🚌 golf cart ride available

15:28

Western ceremony & Cocktail hour

Location/Transportation: Outdoor area outside of the wedding reception; 🚶Walk or 🚌 golf cart ride available

17:58

Dinner reception

Location/Transportation: Wedding dining room

after Dinner

After party

Location/Transportation: Outdoor area outside of the wedding reception

Yangshuo Schedule

September 13-18th

🏞️ For guests who would like to join us on a short vacation and experience world-class climbing in beautiful Yangshuo, please confirm your booking by completing this form by July 14th.

🎁 When we say we want to host you in China, we mean it. If you want to help cover any costs, you can include them in the registry.

September 13 - getting there

Morning

(Tentative) Check out and meet Jake & Joyce at the hotel lobby Sep 13 @1pm

✈️  Flight: Wuxi to Guilin HO2013@6:50pm

Private group transportation to Geemu Resort and Yangshuo Vision Cloud Hotel.

Afternoon

Choose your own adventure:
- All-Terrain Mountain ATV Experience (details on p.24 of this guide )
- Laozhai Mountain Sunset hike
- Sightseeing by Li River
- Visit Xingping village

Evening

Group Chineses BBQ dinner at Geemu Resort

September 14 - guided activities

Morning

☕️ Breakfast at the hotel before a full day of semi-guided activities (all transportation included)!

Choose your own adventure:
- Via Ferrata (details on p.19 of this guide )
- Rock climbing (details on p.21 of this guide )
- Rent a scooter and explore Yangshuo Historic Landscape Park

Afternoon

Group lunch

Choose your own adventure:
- Yulong River raft ride
- Rent a scooter and explore Yangshuo Historic Landscape Park

Evening

Group Dinner

Impression Sanjie Liu Show
(performed by a cast of 600, with the landscape of Yangshuo as the backdrop)

September 15 - relax at local hidden gem

Full day (~6 hr)

☕️ Breakfast at the hotel and head to Tianyan Spring (details on p.6 of this guide )

Take this day to recharge and rest up. Hike through the trees, swim in the water, paddle board, kayak... or just grab a beer and relax by the water.

Picnic for lunch. Head back to the hotel in the late afternoon.

Evening

Make your own plan or join some of us to check out West Street.

September 16: choose your own adventure

Full day

Feel free to book any activities available in this guide with the hotel. You can also explore Yangshuo on your own, climb more, or just relax at our beautiful hotels.

If you need to book a car and driver for the day to do more climbing, contact our hotel staff or let Joyce know!

September 17: mid-autumn festival

Morning + Afternoon

Same as 16th, with an additional option to participate in deep water soloing or to hang out by the water to spectate.

Evening

🎆 Mid-autumn festival celebration & group farewell dinner 🎇

September 18: farewell

Morning

Check out from our hotel and say goodbye to Yangshuo and head to the airport.

✈️  Flight: Guilin to Beijing Hebei Airlines NS8010@12:20pm

September 18-20

Full-day

Jake & Joyce will be staying @Grand Hyatt Beijing and explore Beijing.


We're overjoyed that you're making the trip to join us in China ❤️

Your presence is more than enough. If you still wish to give a gift, we would prefer cash to fund our home improvement projects and future adventures.

Venmo @joyful_he (6193867426)
or
🧧 put your gift in a red envelop and gift us on the day of.